• Jan：到处吃年夜饭，一派等着过春节的气氛。春节回家见了很多朋友，和很多人开开心心的大吃大喝。逛了一下现代的庙会，记得小时候的庙会很热闹啊，现在的这个感觉就是锦里的冷清版了。
• Feb：Outing去了三亚，行事历上什么字都没留下，上一回去三亚是十年前，那时候只是很兴奋很开心，现在好像多了很多杂念。人一辈子又有多少个十年。
• Mar：最最辛苦的一个月，上午学习ABC、下午轮岗、晚上GFS交接、还要同时完成资金成本的作业、兼顾市场的任务。和Coco苦中作乐，交接完半夜2点去永和大王吃面条。（图为TeamBuilding去桐庐CS）
• Apr：行事历上全是资金成本和市场，这个月事件库出炉了，可惜后来它没有生在一个合适的年代，慢慢的成了一个孤儿。（图为太子湾拍花朵朵）

• May：Nikki来了杭州，和小鱼鱼我们三个人一起游了上海、周庄和杭州，玩得超级充实，充实到整个周庄得车上我们三个全部抓紧时间睡觉。休息归来，继续沉浸在市场和轮岗的海洋中。
• Jun：轮岗进入了ending期，市场月报渐渐成形，爸爸妈妈继续来杭视察工作，带着他们去了绍兴、林荫、上海，除了晒和热。。。没有第二个感觉了。。。
• Jul：刚好一个季度结束，做了很多市场月报、季度总结、半年总结等等的各式各样PPT，那段时间对市场的活动很亲切啊。Outing去了张家界，游山玩水，依然记得猛洞河有多么的寒冷。。。
• Aug：感受了Linkin Park和五月天的演唱会，完全不同风格啊，国外走的是纯音乐派，没有什么表演和舞台特效，港台还是大部分处于表演性质，很注重舞台效果、煽情、烘托效果。以后一定要去更多更多的演唱会。工作上继续回到AR开始GFS，偶的宝宝啊，让妈妈好好照顾你吧，看你后妈把你给饿瘦的（Coco莫打我）。

• Sep：集团财务年会，越来越感觉到可悲，每个会都喜欢把认识的人分开，难道一定要强制么？早上5点钟起床，终于赶到了APEC，满足啊满足，终于见识了APEC的现场。
• Oct：跑去参加了PhpWind的论坛坛主见面会，不过很多坛主不是很善言辞。。。国庆回成都玩了玩，菲菲带我吃了好多香香辣辣的东西，和33姐一起去了欢乐谷。。。它们的宗旨就是：怎么能把你玩吐，就怎么设计。十月支付宝摄影帮成立了，偶积极地成为了秘书，协助偶们计费系统的PD打理帮内事务，哈哈。
• Nov：摄影帮组织了很多活动，可惜有的是参加不上的，去浙工大的葵花地拍了向日葵，这应该是我最羡慕的植物了，它们总是那么阳光。GFS二期开始进入筹备期，把自己关到会议室去，好好的闭关了几天，拟出二期方案来，很激动。
• Dec：11月底去厦门看了Nikki，和2个最爱的女人一起度过我的24，希望本命年的一切到此结束。从今以后，只要简单，只要真诚，只要快乐。和Momo回成都做了招聘，Momo吃辣的功力实在不行啊~被我的几个小吃完全放倒了，哈哈。去上海参加了安越的培训，感觉比上财的培训负责多了，教学质量也很好，决定以后培训都选安越了！

2010年，阔步继续向前挺进！！

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曾赖以生存的根开始枯竭，转头来看见一束新一年的光亮，是诚实还是欺骗，待来年续写。

好累好累，他们做了两次数据订正，我就跟着订，头都订大了。明天还要做第三次。我怎么结得完帐！

但是居然回来还能躺床上思考系统问题，还写了封群发邮件。我真的是吃多了。

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9.22无车日 共享健康生活

　　嗨，你知道吗？9月22日是世界无车日的生日，它今年已经9岁啦。目前，已经有30多个国家1500多个城市/镇为它庆祝过生日了。去年，它首次“正式”造访中国，就受到了广泛热烈的欢迎，共有108个城市开展了各式各样的庆祝活动呢。

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Our culture worships planning. Everything must be planned in advance. Our days, week, years, our entire lives. We have diaries, schedules, checklists, targets, goals, aims, strategies, visions even. Career planning is the most insidious of these cults precisely because it encourages a feeling of control over your reactions to future events. As that interview question goes: where do you see yourself in five years time? This invites the beginning of what starts as a little game and finishes as a belief built on sand. You guess what employers want to hear, and then you give it to them. Sometimes this batting back and forth of imagined futures becomes a necessary little game you play in order to ‘get ahead’.

“We want to make a decision all of our own, based on our own values and preferences.”

In reality, people frequently don’t know what they want and psychology has proved it. That’s why career planning, or at the very least just deciding what you’re going to do next, is so unpleasant. It’s no fun at 18 years old when people ask what you want to do. There seem to be so many different options, each with myriad branching possibilities, many of which lead in opposite directions, but all equally tempting. Surrounded by these endless spiralling futures, it is no wonder that many a school-leaver sticks with what they know and follows in parental footsteps. But we don’t all want to trust the tried and tested, whether for good reasons or bad. We want to make a decision all of our own, based on our own values and preferences.

Midlife crisis

If it’s hard at 18, it’s even harder in midlife when people are theoretically better equipped to make their choice. In reality by your 30s wide-eyed optimism has normally been replaced by a more cynical outlook on jobs and the workplace. Now it’s more clear what the downsides of certain jobs are. There’s not only our own experiences of work but we also have friends at work, all of whom colour our perception of their careers.

Everyone has their own internal trade-offs. How much routine do you like: boring but safe)? How much do you like travel: exciting but you’ll be away from loved ones? How much do you care about earning more money: and taking a more boring/stressful/less fulfilling job? Whatever the outcome of all these swings and roundabouts along with many more, the reason that deciding what to do with your life is so difficult is that it involves predicting the future.

There’s many reasons why it seems we should be good at prediction what we want. If I know that I’m enjoying what I’m doing now, then I should enjoy it in the future shouldn’t I? On top of this I’ve got years of experience building up a set of things I like - cinema, books, sitcoms - and things I don’t like - trips to the dentist, severe embarrassment and flu, especially not all at the same time. If I’ve got this huge bank of likes and dislikes it should be easy to predict my wants in the future. And yet, it seems we are often surprised by what the future throws at us.

Miswanting

“We are poor at predicting what will make us happy in the future.”
The idea of making mistakes about what we might want in the future has been termed ‘miswanting’ by Gilbert and Wilson (2000). They point to a range of studies finding we are poor at predicting what will make us happy in the future. My favourite is a simple experiment in which two groups of participants get free sandwiches if they participate in the experiment - a doozie for any undergraduate.

One group has to choose which sandwiches they want for an entire week in advance. The other group gets to choose which they want each day. A fascinating thing happens. People who choose their favourite sandwich each day at lunchtime also often choose the same sandwich. This group turns out to be reasonably happy with its choice.

Amazingly, though, people choosing in advance assume that what they’ll want for lunch next week is a variety. And so they choose a turkey sandwich Monday, tuna on Tuesday, egg on Wednesday and so on. It turn out that when next week rolls around they generally don’t like the variety they thought they would. In fact they are significantly less happy with their choices than the group who chose their sandwiches on the day.

Prediction failure

This variety versus sameness is only one particular bias that people display in making predictions about their future emotional states. There is another counter-intuitive bias emerging from the work being done in positive psychology. This looks at how people predict they will feel after both catastrophically bad, and, conversely, fantastically positive occurrences in their life. For example, how good would you feel if you won the lottery? Most people predict their lives will be completely changed and they’ll be much happier. What does the research find? Yes, people are measurably happier after they’ve just won, but six months down the line they’re back to their individual ‘baseline’ level of happiness.

So, in the journey from the sublime - predicting how we’ll feel about winning the lottery - to the ridiculous - predicting which sandwiches we’ll want for lunch - we are incredibly bad at knowing our future selves. And if we can’t even decide what type of sandwich we might like next week, how can we possibly decide what type of job we’d like to be doing in twenty years?

With age occasionally comes wisdom. Over time we learn, whether implicitly or explicitly, that we are not that good at predicting the future. At the very least we begin to recognise it is a much less precise science than we once thought.

A stranger future

This means your future self is probably a stranger to you. And, on some level, you know it. That’s why it might be hard for an 18 year old to choose their career, but it’s a damn sight harder for someone in midlife when limitations have been learnt.

“People begin to understand that the future holds vanishingly few certainties…”

This might seem like just another way of saying that people get more cautious as they get older, but it is more than that. It’s actually saying that it’s not caution that’s increasing with age, but implicit self-knowledge. People begin to understand that the future holds vanishingly few certainties, even for those things that would seem to be under our most direct control, like our sandwich preferences.

Best guess beats careful planning

The argument about miswanting applies to any area of our lives which involves making a prediction about what we might like in the future. Career planning becomes painful precisely because it’s such an important decision and we come to understand that we have only very limited useful information.

The best strategy for career planning is this: make your best guess, try it out and don’t be surprised if you don’t like it. But for heaven’s sake don’t mention this in your interviews.

Psytopic成员Roger翻译/原文链接
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